How Does a Manners Curriculum Benefit a Classroom?

How Does a Manners Curriculum Benefit a Classroom?

Teaching good manners in the classroom sets children up to become healthy, happy, and well-adjusted adults. A manners curriculum can make the difference between a student’s success and failure later in their lives. 

Here’s why you should teach manners in your classroom.

Why Should Educators Consider A Manners Curriculum?

Although a manners curriculum may not have been part of your own education, it’s a valuable addition for children today. 

Teaching manners in the classroom supports the development of children into well-adjusted members of society. Children of all ages can benefit from the addition of some well-placed manners lessons.

A manners curriculum gives students more opportunities to embrace. This sets them up for success in the future. 

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Unfortunately, many students aren’t taught proper manners or social skills in their homes. That’s why it’s such a valuable addition to classroom curriculum! 

Children and teens still need to know these life skills, even if they aren’t learning at home.

 A firm grasp on manners helps a child grow up into a responsible, caring, successful global citizen.

If children are not learning social skills, manners, and etiquette at home, then we need to teach and show them in the classroom!

A manners curriculum helps students to: 

  • Become more confident
  • Perform better academically
  • Make friends and maintain healthy relationships
  • Feel comfortable in diverse social environments
  • Get along with their peers more easily

Benefits of Adding a Manners Curriculum to Your Classroom

It doesn’t matter if you’re teaching preschoolers or high school seniors. Students of all ages can benefit from a manners curriculum. 

Adding this type of curriculum to your routine can give your students these valuable benefits!

Builds Foundational, Important Character In Students

A manners curriculum helps teach children values that will stick with them for life. These foundational character traits are actually about so much more than proper manners!

Students will build a foundation of trust in adults and society as a whole through this process. This is especially important if children aren’t receiving positive social interactions at home. Through their lessons, they learn respectful behavior habits, which will serve them for the rest of their lives.

Learning about manners gives students a sense of agency and makes them feel like important members of their community. When they feel that sense of connection, it’s easier for them to develop kindness.

A good manners curriculum also encourages students’ confidence. A confident child is better behaved and has an easier time making friends. A confident child feels comfortable showing off their true character. And, of course, a confident child is generally a happier child!

Teaching children how to be valuable parts of society includes helping them to develop leadership skills. Confident, well-behaved, and socially conscious children are more likely to embrace leadership opportunities. They are more likely to support the people around them and intuitively understand the nuances of leadership.


Helps Children Adapt To The World Around Them

A manners curriculum helps teach children to understand the world and enjoy life in a healthier way.

Children (and adults!) often feel stress because they aren’t sure what is expected from them in a given situation. This type of curriculum gives students the skills they need to interact with the world.

Good manners demonstrate a sense of self-awareness and respect towards others. It’s an exercise in empathy as much as anything else. Teaching children to show that they care by practicing good behaviors is a useful life skill.

Adding a manners curriculum also helps children learn to be positive. Throughout the curriculum, they are learning to interact with one another in genuine ways. They begin to monitor how their words and actions affect the people around them.

Build Important Lifelong Social Skills

A manners curriculum helps teach children lifelong social skills. For many students who aren’t receiving social guidance or positive interaction at home, it can impact their lives in significant ways!

Loneliness was something that children struggled with well before the pandemic. It’s an even worse problem now. Part of a manners curriculum is teaching children to build valuable conversation skills. They are given the opportunity to engage with adults and their peers in a healthy and meaningful way. They are taught that their words have value.

In learning basic table manners, children will learn a skill that will help them all throughout their lives. Educators spend their lunch with the students and are in the perfect position to teach them in a way that sticks.

Many children don’t even know where to place their napkin, how to hold a fork, or how to chew with their mouth closed. They will enjoy learning new skills, and their parents will certainly appreciate it too!

Adding a manners curriculum will help you to educate patient, thoughtful, and confident children. The social skills you impart will help them in situations way beyond the lunch table. 

If you want to add a manners curriculum to your classroom and you need a little help, Manners To Go is the solution!

How Does a Manners Curriculum Benefit a Classroom? | Manners to Go

Free Virtual Afternoon Tea Instruction

Free Virtual Afternoon Tea Instruction

As an educator, you may use this information in your classroom or enjoy this event with your own family.

During this afternoon tea instruction you will learn:

The history of tea

How to hold a teacup (you might be surprised)

How to eat a scone (hint, not as if you were eating a sandwich)

Milk in first or last

How to stir (this might surprise you too)

How to set a “tea” table

Napkin etiquette

And so much more

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Why Teaching Patience to Preschoolers Is So Important (& How To Do It)

Why Teaching Patience to Preschoolers Is So Important (& How To Do It)

Patience is a skill that brings lifelong benefits. A patient person will have advantages in many situations, so it’s important to instill at a young age! Teaching patience to preschoolers may seem overwhelming at first, but with the right strategies, it’s a breeze.

Why Is Teaching Patience to Preschoolers Important? 

Teaching patience to preschoolers is an important part of their learning to become a harmonious member of society.

Think of patience as the ability to tolerate delays or waiting without becoming upset. This is just as essential a skill for preschoolers as it is for adults. 

How many tantrums come around because young children are asked to delay gratification in some form or another? As a parent, the chance of getting frustrated with your children is significantly smaller when they practice patience.

Teaching patience to preschoolers gives them a skill they will use for the rest of their lives. An impatient person will struggle at school, in their personal lives, and even in their professional lives later.

Patient children have the tools to excel in the classroom and the eventual workplace. A child who knows how to be patient contributes to a calmer classroom environment. 

Plus, they’re better prepared for the jump to kindergarten!


Easy Tips for Effectively Teaching Patience to Preschoolers

Teaching patience to preschoolers may not seem like the easiest task at first. It may even seem impossible. 

But having the right strategies will help you do this without stress! 

The more your students learn from you, the better behaved they will be going forward.

Create a Positive Learning Environment

When you are teaching patience to preschoolers, focus on tiny elements to build a positive learning environment for the best results.

Those tiny elements can start as creating tiny habits around patience. Practicing those habits every day will cement them into lifelong coping skills.

One of the best ways to teach patience is to model it. You must be patient yourself! 

Take advantage of opportunities to exemplify patience in the classroom. This will make your classroom a positive learning environment. When learning is a positive experience, your students will feel heard, acknowledged, and safe.

Here are some specific ways you can make teaching patience to preschoolers a positive experience.

Get on Their Level

Interact directly with the children you’re teaching. Kneel down and make eye contact. 

Let your students know that you get it! You know what they’re learning is tough, but you also know that they can do this.  

Make It Fun

Kids love to have fun! You can use this to your advantage when you’re teaching preschoolers patience. 

Entice them with activities they enjoy. You can even include games and toys to help the lessons stick. 


Offer Choices

Preschoolers desire agency just like adults do.

By giving them options, you’re acknowledging their need to feel like they have some control. Choosing between two activities will keep them more engaged in what they’re doing.

Encourage Participation

When children are struggling with impatience, encourage them to participate in activities. 

For example, if they’re impatient while waiting for a snack, you could let them pass out napkins. They stay busy and engaged instead of stressing about the wait!

Model Patience In The Classroom Whenever Possible (& Acknowledge It!)

When you’re teaching patience, you have to model patience! Seek opportunities to discuss, acknowledge, and show patience to your students.

When you’re teaching patience to preschoolers, you’ll have to practice patience plenty yourself. Use it as a teachable moment. 

If you’re being patient, draw your students’ attention to it. Tell them how you are coping with the situation. They’re watching and learning from you!

Acknowledging student success is a critical part of making learning stick. 

When children demonstrate patience in everyday encounters, praise them! When they’re struggling, be compassionate. Waiting isn’t fun for anyone, let alone toddlers!

If you’re not sure where to start, here are a few creative ways to model patience in the classroom.


Practice Gratitude In The Classroom

Add gratitude practices to your daily activity list. 

Let every student share something they’re grateful for. This could be something like a new toy, a sunny day, or a friend. 

Teach your preschoolers to especially focus on gratitude when they are waiting for something.

Practice Waiting Behaviors

The way we behave when we’re waiting for something matters. It sends a message. 

Have your students practice waiting behaviors regularly! 

Maybe they smile, maybe they count. Or maybe they need a unique strategy. This is where you can creatively help students work through challenges! 

Teaching patience to preschoolers has tremendous benefits for both the students and their teacher! Socializing will be so much smoother. 

Plus, children who understand how to practice patience are a joy to teach. They are more responsive and less prone to outbursts. 

With these strategies, and a little patience yourself, teaching patience to preschoolers is easy!

Why Teaching Patience to Preschoolers Is So Important (& How To Do It) | Manners to Go

Teach Character and Manners to Children

You may have seen Michele Borba, ED.D. on the Today Show giving advice on teaching character strengths to children.

I was lucky enough to see her speak at a school in Philadelphia.  You can tell she is the EXPERT and one of the most passionate advocates for children and teens.

If you have not seen her, spend some time on You Tube to see and witness what I mean.

Thrivers: The Surprising Reason Why Some Kids Struggle and Others Shine 

Dr. Borba says Thrivers are made not born.

Even before the pandemic, children were stressed, lonely and overwhelmed.  According to Dr. Borba, we have focused so much on testing and being competitive, we have lost touch and not taught children how to be human.

When I read this….it caused a moment of pause. It is a profound statement and one I believe to be true.

Teach Character and Manners to Children

Here is the good news.  Character strengths can and must be taught to children. Character strengths, teaching manners and life skills are as important as academic success. 

Dr. Borba Lists Character Strengths As:

  • Self-Confidence
  • Empathy
  • Self-Control
  • Integrity
  • Curiosity
  • Perservance
  • Optimism

The book is filled with proven strategies you can easily teach children from preschool through high school.

I like how Dr. Borba gives you ideas on how to weave these skills into our everyday lives.  We don’t always need worksheets or lectures. 

By reading this book, we learn how to find meaningful ways to nurture the seven character strengths by modeling, discussing and pointing them out.

As always, thanks for reading and being a part of the manners movement. 

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Click here to download the free manners lesson plan by grade level

Teachers love using our lesson plans to teach manners in their classroom. The lesson plan objective along with suggested dialogue and handouts are included.

We make it easy for you.

Teaching manners and character strengths in your classroom will make a difference.

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Teach Manners in the Classroom

Teach Manners in the Classroom

My heart goes out to children.  I often wonder what is happening to their ability to connect.  

What is it like for them to build relationships with their friends at the moment? How about with other adults outside of their parents?

Many children have dealt with this for years as we have become so accustomed to our lives orbiting around our digital devices.

What is in store for this generation that has been robbed of social interactions now for almost a year and tied to devices to make somewhat of a human connection?

I do know this- we can help them. 

Parents Need Teachers to Help Them Teach Children about Kindness, Respect, Good Manners and Confidence

Over the years as I have worked with parents, I often hear the comment “they will listen to you more than me”- meaning, when teaching manners, children listen to a third party.  For some reason this is the way of the world.

How and Where Can You Teach Manners to Children Right Now in 2021?

Finding moments or dedicated time to teach manners in your classroom is actually very easy.  Most likely you are using good social skills all day every day in the classroom (virtual or in-person).

Manners and Life Skills such as:

Eye contact: When using eye contact, point out what you are doing.  As students use good eye contact, let them know you noticed.

Respect: Point out respectful behaviors as you see certain actions (helping others, expressing gratitude, holding the door, saying “good morning”)

Conversation skills: We have multiple conversations a day.  Recognize students when they engage with each other. Conversation skills are becoming a lost art.  This skill is the cornerstone of building friendships.

There has been a focus at the school level in many states to focus on the whole child.  

You Can Call this Type of Manners Curriculum and Lesson:

Life Skills

Character Building

SEL | Social Emotional Learning 

We are here to help you.

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Today is the day!

Teachers love using our lesson plans to teach manners in their classroom.  The lesson plan objective along with suggested dialogues and handouts are included.

We make it easy for you.

You will not disappointed and we promise the manners lesson plans and curriculum will make a difference in your classroom.

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Why Setting the Table Is an Important Life Skill for Children to Learn

Why Setting the Table Is an Important Life Skill for Children to Learn

Why Setting the Table Is an Important Life Skill for Children to Learn

Certain rituals can become the most important part of a child’s upbringing.  

Setting the table can be one of them.

Not only can it be a memory that makes them smile and reminisce as an adult, but it also serves as an instrumental life skill.

Setting the table is a life skill that leads to CONFIDENCE

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Whether you are a teacher, parent or care-giver, you can make this a fun skill to learn.

No, this does not have to be a drudgery or about making the act right or wrong.

This is about making it fun and a ritual they can partake in with ease and at the same time the satisfaction of helping you as a parent or a teacher.

What Does Setting the Table Teach Children?

Instills Confidence: Most Children are social beings and enjoy eating together.  When they know the basics…napkin in lap and using it, chew with their mouth closed, etc. they feel good about themselves.  They are confident.  They know what to do when eating with others.

Joy in Helping: Setting the table starts the ritual of eating together.  When you allow children to take an active role, they feel useful. Taking out the plates, forks and napkins sets the tone for togetherness.  This can be in the cafeteria at school, in the classroom or at home. 

There is so much joy in helping out a parent or teacher. They can also take on a role at the end of the meal by clearing the table (how fun is that chore!).

Conversation Skills:  I always tell teachers and parents, if you want your children to have good conversation skills, sit down together at meal time.  Not only does sitting down together to eat teach table manners, this act also teaches everyone about talking to each other.

Ask questions.  Learn what happened during the day.  This is a simple step to take and adds so much value for life.

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