Free Virtual Afternoon Tea Instruction

Free Virtual Afternoon Tea Instruction

As an educator, you may use this information in your classroom or enjoy this event with your own family.

During this afternoon tea instruction you will learn:

The history of tea

How to hold a teacup (you might be surprised)

How to eat a scone (hint, not as if you were eating a sandwich)

Milk in first or last

How to stir (this might surprise you too)

How to set a “tea” table

Napkin etiquette

And so much more

DATES: Thursday, May 6 | 4:00 pm EDT

Saturday, May 8 | 4:00 pm EDT

This event is complimentary. We so appreciate your support over the years.


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Why Teaching Patience to Preschoolers Is So Important (& How To Do It)

Why Teaching Patience to Preschoolers Is So Important (& How To Do It)

Patience is a skill that brings lifelong benefits. A patient person will have advantages in many situations, so it’s important to instill at a young age! Teaching patience to preschoolers may seem overwhelming at first, but with the right strategies, it’s a breeze.

Why Is Teaching Patience to Preschoolers Important? 

Teaching patience to preschoolers is an important part of their learning to become a harmonious member of society.

Think of patience as the ability to tolerate delays or waiting without becoming upset. This is just as essential a skill for preschoolers as it is for adults. 

How many tantrums come around because young children are asked to delay gratification in some form or another? As a parent, the chance of getting frustrated with your children is significantly smaller when they practice patience.

Teaching patience to preschoolers gives them a skill they will use for the rest of their lives. An impatient person will struggle at school, in their personal lives, and even in their professional lives later.

Patient children have the tools to excel in the classroom and the eventual workplace. A child who knows how to be patient contributes to a calmer classroom environment. 

Plus, they’re better prepared for the jump to kindergarten!


Easy Tips for Effectively Teaching Patience to Preschoolers

Teaching patience to preschoolers may not seem like the easiest task at first. It may even seem impossible. 

But having the right strategies will help you do this without stress! 

The more your students learn from you, the better behaved they will be going forward.

Create a Positive Learning Environment

When you are teaching patience to preschoolers, focus on tiny elements to build a positive learning environment for the best results.

Those tiny elements can start as creating tiny habits around patience. Practicing those habits every day will cement them into lifelong coping skills.

One of the best ways to teach patience is to model it. You must be patient yourself! 

Take advantage of opportunities to exemplify patience in the classroom. This will make your classroom a positive learning environment. When learning is a positive experience, your students will feel heard, acknowledged, and safe.

Here are some specific ways you can make teaching patience to preschoolers a positive experience.

Get on Their Level

Interact directly with the children you’re teaching. Kneel down and make eye contact. 

Let your students know that you get it! You know what they’re learning is tough, but you also know that they can do this.  

Make It Fun

Kids love to have fun! You can use this to your advantage when you’re teaching preschoolers patience. 

Entice them with activities they enjoy. You can even include games and toys to help the lessons stick. 


Offer Choices

Preschoolers desire agency just like adults do.

By giving them options, you’re acknowledging their need to feel like they have some control. Choosing between two activities will keep them more engaged in what they’re doing.

Encourage Participation

When children are struggling with impatience, encourage them to participate in activities. 

For example, if they’re impatient while waiting for a snack, you could let them pass out napkins. They stay busy and engaged instead of stressing about the wait!

Model Patience In The Classroom Whenever Possible (& Acknowledge It!)

When you’re teaching patience, you have to model patience! Seek opportunities to discuss, acknowledge, and show patience to your students.

When you’re teaching patience to preschoolers, you’ll have to practice patience plenty yourself. Use it as a teachable moment. 

If you’re being patient, draw your students’ attention to it. Tell them how you are coping with the situation. They’re watching and learning from you!

Acknowledging student success is a critical part of making learning stick. 

When children demonstrate patience in everyday encounters, praise them! When they’re struggling, be compassionate. Waiting isn’t fun for anyone, let alone toddlers!

If you’re not sure where to start, here are a few creative ways to model patience in the classroom.


Practice Gratitude In The Classroom

Add gratitude practices to your daily activity list. 

Let every student share something they’re grateful for. This could be something like a new toy, a sunny day, or a friend. 

Teach your preschoolers to especially focus on gratitude when they are waiting for something.

Practice Waiting Behaviors

The way we behave when we’re waiting for something matters. It sends a message. 

Have your students practice waiting behaviors regularly! 

Maybe they smile, maybe they count. Or maybe they need a unique strategy. This is where you can creatively help students work through challenges! 

Teaching patience to preschoolers has tremendous benefits for both the students and their teacher! Socializing will be so much smoother. 

Plus, children who understand how to practice patience are a joy to teach. They are more responsive and less prone to outbursts. 

With these strategies, and a little patience yourself, teaching patience to preschoolers is easy!

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Teach Manners in the Classroom

Teach Manners in the Classroom

My heart goes out to children.  I often wonder what is happening to their ability to connect.  

What is it like for them to build relationships with their friends at the moment? How about with other adults outside of their parents?

Many children have dealt with this for years as we have become so accustomed to our lives orbiting around our digital devices.

What is in store for this generation that has been robbed of social interactions now for almost a year and tied to devices to make somewhat of a human connection?

I do know this- we can help them. 

Parents Need Teachers to Help Them Teach Children about Kindness, Respect, Good Manners and Confidence

Over the years as I have worked with parents, I often hear the comment “they will listen to you more than me”- meaning, when teaching manners, children listen to a third party.  For some reason this is the way of the world.

How and Where Can You Teach Manners to Children Right Now in 2021?

Finding moments or dedicated time to teach manners in your classroom is actually very easy.  Most likely you are using good social skills all day every day in the classroom (virtual or in-person).

Manners and Life Skills such as:

Eye contact: When using eye contact, point out what you are doing.  As students use good eye contact, let them know you noticed.

Respect: Point out respectful behaviors as you see certain actions (helping others, expressing gratitude, holding the door, saying “good morning”)

Conversation skills: We have multiple conversations a day.  Recognize students when they engage with each other. Conversation skills are becoming a lost art.  This skill is the cornerstone of building friendships.

There has been a focus at the school level in many states to focus on the whole child.  

You Can Call this Type of Manners Curriculum and Lesson:

Life Skills

Character Building

SEL | Social Emotional Learning 

We are here to help you.

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Teachers love using our lesson plans to teach manners in their classroom.  The lesson plan objective along with suggested dialogues and handouts are included.

We make it easy for you.

You will not disappointed and we promise the manners lesson plans and curriculum will make a difference in your classroom.

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NEW Parenting Manners Book: An Interview with the Authors

New Parenting Book on Manners: An Interview with the Authors

A new book, Modern Manners for Moms and Dads: Practical Parenting Solutions for Sticky Social Situations is being released this week.  This is a must read for parents and teachers.

I am thrilled I had the chance to interview them yesterday.  They are smart and savvy moms that share real-life experiences in their new book.

This is not your grandmother’s parenting book. Their book deals with issues on guiding young children in today’s hectic and ever-changing world.

From birthday parties to how to ask children if it is ok to post their pictures on your social media, all the questions you ponder as a parent or teacher are answered.

And some of their answers may surprise you.

Take time to make a latte or a cup of tea and enjoy as I interview them about all things sticky when out and about in your daily life with young children.

Yes, we get a bit nerdy about social skills but I promise you will learn so much that you can share with children, spouses and other teachers.

Here is a link to the videos, Part 1

A link to Part 2:

To purchase a copy of the book and to visit Evie and Sarah’s website, click here Modern Manners for Moms and Dads: Practical Parenting Solutions for Sticky Social Situations.

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10 Tips to Teach Manners in Your Classroom

10 Tips to Teach Manners in Your Classroom

10 Tips to Teach Manners in Your Classroom

Life Skills | Manners | Character Education | Social Emotional Learning      

10 Tips to Teach Manners in Your Classroom:

Eye Contact

It is amazing what happens when you bring this to a child’s attention. Eye contact is the basis for feeling and showing that you are confident.


What a great way to start the day.  Greet your students every morning or end the day with a handshake

Lesson plan introductions


The best way to teach about introductions, is to organize a role-playing activity for your students. They can pretend they have never met each other. Teach them to say “hello, my name is”.


Sit up straight.  Stand up straight.  Having good posture shows that you are confident and interested.

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How to Hold a Fork

Holding a fork correctly is important and shows that we have good table manners.

Napkin in Your Lap

Teach your students to put the napkin in the their lap during recess or lunch.

Conversation Skills

Do your students know how to start or carry on a conversation with each other or with someone they don’t know?

Be Fully Present | Put Down the Phone or Device

Isn’t it a beautiful gift when someone pays attention to what you are saying and shows they are interested?

What does respect look like?

Deference | Respect

Allowing someone to go first or opening the door.  This is deference.  This is respect. Model this in your classroom.


Say good morning or good bye to your students or co-workers


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Good Manners Set the Stage for Future Success

As an educator, you know how important social skills are for a child’s success. Children who are polite, well spoken, and attentive to others find it easier to get along with their peers and make a positive impression on the adults in their lives.
As a result, more opportunities come their way, laying the foundation for future success in life.

Yet too many children are not being taught proper manners or other valuable social skills at home. Which means it’s up to us as educators to equip them with these important life tools – and help them grow up to be responsible, caring, successful global citizens.

Now you can help students improve their behavior in as little as 10 minutes a day… a week… or month.

Preschool | Elementary | Middle School | High School

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About Manners To Go

Most likely we already share something in common. We believe that teaching children manners, character and social emotional skills are very important.

Manners To Go™ is a full-service company for those choosing to teach manners to children. You can make a difference. All children and teenagers deserve to feel what it is like to be confident, and use good manners out in the world.

Manners To Go™ is taught in public, private and charter schools around the world. The New York Times, Parents Magazine and Fox News have all featured Manners To Go and the many benefits of teaching social skills to children.

Whether you are an educator who wants to teach it in the classroom or someone who is looking to become trained and certified, we provide all the solutions.

My name is Lisa Richey, and I am the founder of Manners To Go™ . This brand has given me the honor of teaching manners to thousands of people around the world. The journey has taken me from Portland, Oregon to the Middle East. I believe that manners are not about judgment or rules. Manners are about self-interest. It really is about how using good manners makes you feel on the inside.


Teaching Manners in the Preschool Classroom

Teaching Manners in the Preschool Classroom

Teaching Manners in the Preschool Classroom

Teaching manners in the preschool classroom:  During the preschool years, manners are a critical element of a child’s education. This is a time of discovery for the preschooler.  Teaching manners in the classroom and at home needs to be routine. Preschoolers pick up on a teacher or parent that is polite and at ease in life.  Keep reading as this article is about teaching manners in a fun and creative way for both teachers and parents.

Tips to Teach Manners in the Preschool Classroom

Lesson plan introductions

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Empathy: We have the ability to feel what other’s are feeling.  This must be taught with intention in the preschool classroom.  When the situation arises in your classroom, offer praise when someone shares or understands with another student’s feelings are hurt. The ability to empathize is the foundation for respect and self-respect.

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Please, Thank You and Excuse Me:  These magical words are the basis of good behavior and communication skills.  In your classroom, use these words often and when a child uses them, praise the child.  The preschool years are the perfect time to start with basic conversation skills.  Teaching when to have a conversation and how to ask questions is important.

If they absolutely must interrupt, show them how to say “excuse me”. Tell them how it makes others feel when they interrupt.


Meet and Greet:  Start the day with “good morning”.  Many schools around the world, start with a handshake. This is a big part of our culture in the US.  It is how we greet people.  A handshake shows leadership and confidence.  Teach this.  Start while they are young.

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Basic Table Manners: Wow, is this one is important!  The basics: chew with your mouth closed, do not talk with food in your mouth and place your napkin in your lap.  Serve food that requires a fork. Teach them how to hold a fork correctly.

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Using Manners in Public Places: Expand a child’s horizons.  Take them to museums, out to the park and to parties. Teach them to use their “indoor voice”, not to complain or whine, and to follow the group while on a school activity.

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Party Manners: Being social is fun and so important at this age.  In your classroom, have parties and teach them many of the life skills mentioned above.  You can teach greetings, how to share, how to have a conversation and basic grooming skills.

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Would You Like to Learn More About Teaching Manners and Basic Life Skills in Your Classroom?

We are a full service company offering lesson plans for preschools to teach manners and social skills.  Our programs are taught around the world in the preschool classroom.  As an early childhood educator, you understand how important it is to teach your students how to behave appropriately in different social situations. Any child, no matter how young, is capable of learning basic etiquette and social skills, such as greetings, introductions, table manners, saying please and thank you, listening when others are talking, and showing respect to others. The Manners To Go™ Preschool curriculum makes it fun and easy for you to teach these skills to your students and prepare them for success in elementary school.

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