If you become an etiquette coach, you’ll enjoy a challenging and rewarding career. You’ll get to be creative and work in your passion every single day!
Curious? If running your own business and making a lasting impact on children appeals to you, read on.
Here are the biggest benefits of becoming an etiquette coach!
What Is An Etiquette Coach?
In a second, we’ll dive into specific reasons you should consider becoming an etiquette coach. But first, let’s cover the basics of what an etiquette coach actually does!
To start, throw out the Hollywood image of an etiquette coach teaching ladies to balance books on their heads.
There is so much more to the world of etiquette coaching than teaching people which fork to use. While that’s certainly part of it, manners aren’t the only thing you’ll cover in your sessions!
An etiquette coach is responsible for teaching children and teenagers how to better navigate the world around them. Under your tutelage, children learn how to form lasting relationships, and how to be upstanding members of society.
It doesn’t stop there, though.
You’ll teach children to communicate their needs and respond gracefully to others. That means you’re preparing them to be successful in both their private and professional lives.
Being an etiquette coach is rewarding work that will challenge and fulfill you every day.
Being an etiquette coach comes with so many benefits!
It would be impossible to list them all here, so I’ve narrowed it down to the three best reasons to look into a career as an etiquette coach.
You Get To Work For Yourself
Being an etiquette coach isn’t just about teaching people manners. It’s also about becoming an entrepreneur who experiences all of the benefits of working for yourself.
Becoming an entrepreneur can be one of the most fulfilling aspects of this job. It’s certainly been valuable for me!
Life as an entrepreneur has its challenges, but it’s also amazing—and changes you for the better.
You get to earn your own money doing something that you’re proud of. More importantly, you’ll spend every day working towards what YOU truly want.
As an entrepreneur, you have complete control over your business. This is so unlike a corporate job, where you’re beholden to someone else’s goals.
You get to build your own business, making every decision along the way. You’re the one who decides everything, from how you present yourself to the colors featured on your website!
It’s all you.
Building your own business as an etiquette coach gives you the freedom to shine, connect, and educate!
You’ll Experience Flexibility and Unique Opportunities
As an etiquette coach and entrepreneur, your daily life becomes rich with opportunities. You’ll be able to diversify your experience, broaden your horizons, and even literally travel the world.
When you’re building your own business as an etiquette coach, you are the boss! You create your own schedule. You decide when your working hours are and when you can devote time to your friends and family.
When you are working, you’ll never be bored.
There’s always a project to create or skills to teach. As you’re growing your business, you will find so many things to learn it will keep you on your toes. There are so many relevant skills you can spend your time mastering.
This is especially true when you own a business teaching manners to children. You’ll constantly learn and need to keep up with what’s new, relevant, and exciting. As society changes, you’ll need to pivot in your business, too.
Don’t worry—this keeps your life exciting! You have so much freedom to be creative in your work and bring the world of etiquette to life for your students.
Another benefit of this career path is that you aren’t tied to a single location. This is a job you can do from anywhere in the world! You have the flexibility to work on the seaside in Thailand or from a resort in Switzerland.
You’ll Support Children and Families & Directly Impact Their Lives
Etiquette coaches directly interact with their clients and impact their lives. At Manners to Go, we believe every child deserves to learn manners.
Honestly, there’s nothing quite like seeing a child light up when they fully grasp a manners principle!
Children have been spending so much time interacting with the world through their screens. Etiquette coaches are needed now more than ever to help children understand how to make real human connections. Children need to learn how to build relationships and friendships offline.
And there is nothing like seeing children learn. You will regularly interact with kids whose lives you are changing. Seeing a child light up when he learns to make eye contact, make an introduction, or set the table is heartwarming. Truly, this is the best part of being an etiquette coach and teaching manners!
As an etiquette coach, you have a unique opportunity to give back to society and to your community. You’ll be able to make a direct impact while doing something that lights YOU up!
As an etiquette coach, every day brings me a new challenge to overcome and a new way to explore my creative side.
I have the freedom and flexibility to work when and where I want, making a real difference in people’s lives.
Do you want to work for yourself and leave a lasting impact on the people around you? Then a career as an etiquette coach just might be perfect for you!
Here is a FREE Guide to Help YOU Start a Business Teaching Manners to Children
If you are looking to start immediately and save money on travel and time, then this is your best option.You choose the dates of our trainings. Most choose to have their sessions once a week, others twice. This is a “live” and private training. It is NOTself-guided.
PRIVATE Training. That’s right, we meet in person, the two of us and our focus is completely on your business. Click the image above or follow the button below to learn more and to see a list of cities available for your training.
How to Become a Certified Etiquette Trainer for Children—and Teach Them to Dine with Grace
I recently came across a sign outside a restaurant that read: Unattended Children Will Be Given Espresso and a Free Kitten. It made me smile. But, as humorous as it is, it also speaks to a very real issue.
Over the years, I’ve had countless restaurant owners, servers, and fellow diners ask about the dilemma of unattended children in restaurants. From the restaurant’s perspective, it’s a safety hazard—servers juggling trays of piping-hot dishes don’t mix well with little ones running around. From a diner’s perspective, the endless noise and distractions can turn what could be an elegant evening into a chaotic circus.
I grew up as an only child for much of my life—my sister is ten years older—so dining out with adults was the norm. Often, these outings included my father’s clients or customers. Little did I know, those experiences were shaping me for adulthood. By the time I entered the corporate world, I was completely at ease in any business setting—especially when I was the one hosting the dinner.
This is why teaching children proper restaurant behavior isn’t just about keeping them from launching sugar packets across the table. It’s about preparing them for life.
Confidence at the dinner table translates to confidence in everyday life.
Teaching Children’s Dining Etiquette as a Certified Expert
If you’re passionate about helping children grow into poised, self-assured young adults, becoming a certified etiquette trainermight be your calling. At Manners To Go, our certification program equips you with everything you need to teach children’s etiquette—including a dynamic restaurant manners module.
Our curriculum isn’t about stuffy rules—it’s about engaging, real-world learning. Role-playing activities make lessons fun and interactive. Children get to practice everything from ordering politely to handling utensils with ease.
Imagine guiding a child through their first fine-dining experience—teaching them how to properly unfold a napkin, navigate multiple forks, and engage in conversation without a tablet glued to their hands. These skills last a lifetime.
Why Get Certified with Manners To Go?
Becoming a certified etiquette expert for children means you’ll have the tools, credibility, and confidence to teach with authority. Our program is designed for those who want to launch their own business or enhance their current career in education or coaching.
Here’s what you’ll gain:
✔ A complete, ready-to-use curriculum—No need to start from scratch. ✔ Credibility & expertise—Stand out as a trained professional in children’s etiquette. ✔ Business support—We provide guidance on launching and growing your business. ✔ A fulfilling career—Make an impact while doing what you love.
The Future of Dining (and Why You Matter)
The way we dine says a lot about us. As a certified etiquette expert, you’ll play a key role in shaping a new generation of polite, poised, and self-assured young people. And who knows? Maybe the next time you see a sign about free kittens and espresso-fueled children, you’ll smile—knowing you’re part of the solution.
If you’re excited about the idea of teaching etiquette and launching your own business, let’s chat. Becoming a certified etiquette trainer with Manners To Go is the perfect way to make a lasting impact—one polished child at a time.
If you are looking to start immediately and save money on travel and time, then this is your best option.You choose the dates of our trainings. Most choose to have their sessions once a week, others twice. This is a “live” and private training. It is NOTself-guided.
PRIVATE Training. That’s right, we meet in person, the two of us and our focus is completely on your business. Click the image above or follow the button below to learn more and to see a list of cities available for your training.
“Poise” refers to a sense of graceful composure and self-assuredness in various situations. It involves maintaining an elegant, balanced and confident demeanor regardless of the circumstances.
What is Poise?
Poise is often associated with a calm and collected presence that exudes confidence and control.
Teaching poise within a manners program involves a combination of developing self-awareness, practicing mindfulness, improving physical posture and body language, and building emotional resilience. Here are some steps to help teach and cultivate poise:
Self-awareness: Help individuals become more aware of their emotions, thoughts, and physical sensations. This awareness is crucial in understanding how they react to different situations and learning to manage their responses.
Mindfulness: Encourage mindfulness practices such as meditation, deep breathing exercises, and progressive muscle relaxation. These techniques help individuals stay present, manage stress, and respond to situations in a composed manner.
Confidence-building: Work on building self-confidence by acknowledging and celebrating personal achievements and strengths. Set achievable goals and help individuals recognize their progress.
Positive self-talk: Teach the importance of positive self-talk and help individuals replace self-doubt with affirmations and constructive thoughts. This can significantly impact their overall self-image and poise.
Physical posture: Proper posture contributes to a sense of poise. Teach individuals how to stand and sit up straight, aligning their body to project confidence and grace. Good posture also has positive effects on mental and emotional well-being.
Body language: Educate individuals about the significance of body language in conveying poise. Encourage open and relaxed gestures, steady eye contact, and a friendly smile. Practicing these behaviors can enhance their overall presence.
Breathing techniques: Teach deep breathing techniques that help in calming the nervous system and reducing stress. Controlled breathing can be used in challenging situations to maintain composure.
Stress management: Guide individuals on effective stress management strategies such as time management, prioritization, and setting boundaries. When they feel in control of their responsibilities, it becomes easier to maintain poise.
Practice composure: Role-playing and simulated scenarios can help individuals practice maintaining poise in challenging situations. This can build their ability to respond calmly and thoughtfully even when faced with unexpected challenges.
Emotional resilience: Teach individuals to manage their emotions and respond rationally rather than react impulsively. Encourage problem-solving and a focus on solutions rather than dwelling on problems.
Social skills: Help individuals improve their communication and social skills. The ability to engage in meaningful conversations and connect with others in various situations enhances their overall poise.
Modeling: Be a role model by demonstrating poise in your own behavior. Share personal stories of how you’ve overcome challenges and maintained composure.
Remember that developing poise is an ongoing process that requires patience and practice.
If you are looking to start immediately and save money on travel and time, then this is your best option.You choose the dates of our trainings. Most choose to have their sessions once a week, others twice. This is a “live” and private training. It is NOTself-guided.
PRIVATE Training. That’s right, we meet in person, the two of us and our focus is completely on your business. Click the image above or follow the button below to learn more and to see a list of cities available for your training.
Are you still a magazine lover like me? I absolutely love it when I get my favorites in the mail (Veranda, Frederick, Milieu, etc.).
The arrival of these treasure are always accompanied by a cup of tea and the best chocolate I can find in the moment.
Frederick Magazine (focuses on interior design) arrived over the weekend. There’s something magical about the moment a new issue lands in my mailbox.
Do You Know Which Fork to Use
Flipping through its beautifully curated pages is always a visual treat, but the January 2025 issue took my breath away. Why? A stunning feature called “Set the Table” showcased flatware in all its glory—dessert spoons, fish forks, cream spoons, and even the elusive sauce spoon!
For someone passionate about manners and etiquette, it was pure joy. Each utensil on the beautifully styled table had a purpose, and seeing them celebrated reminded me why I love what I do: helping others navigate these seemingly small but significant details with confidence and ease.
Forks, Spoons, and the Joy of Knowing What to Do
Picture this: you’re seated at a special dinner, and the table is a dazzling display of forks, spoons, and knives. For many, the sight of multiple utensils can feel intimidating, but as etiquette experts, we know that it’s an invitation to explore the art of dining.
This is where your role as an etiquette expert truly shines. Imagine guiding others to feel the same ease and excitement you do, helping them know exactly which fork to use for the salad or what that tiny spoon is meant for. By teaching children and adults these timeless skills, you’re not just sharing knowledge—you’re inspiring confidence and grace.
Frederick Magazine: A Must-Read for Aspiring Etiquette Experts
The January 2025 issue of Frederick Magazine is a must-have for anyone passionate about etiquette and table settings. From dessert spoons to fish forks, it’s a feast for the eyes and a source of inspiration. You can find it on newsstands now or order a copy online to see the feature for yourself.
Turn Your Passion into Purpose
If you’ve ever dreamed of becoming certified as an etiquette expert and starting a business teaching manners to children, now is the time to act. Just like each piece of flatware has its purpose, you have a calling to make a difference in the lives of others. Whether it’s teaching children how to hold a fork or empowering them with confidence at the table, your passion can spark lasting change.
Start your journey today and join a community of like-minded individuals who share your love for etiquette and elegance.
Let’s make the world a little more polished, one fork at a time!
If you are looking to start immediately and save money on travel and time, then this is your best option.You choose the dates of our trainings. Most choose to have their sessions once a week, others twice. This is a “live” and private training. It is NOTself-guided.
PRIVATE Training. That’s right, we meet in person, the two of us and our focus is completely on your business. Click the image above or follow the button below to learn more and to see a list of cities available for your training.
Are you ready to turn your passion into a purposeful, profitable business in 2025?
Teaching children’s etiquette isn’t just about table manners—it’s about giving the next generation confidence, empathy, and poise for life.
And yes, you can make this your dream career.
Here’s Your Game Plan to Launch a Thriving Business and Build Your Dream
Step 1: Dream Big, but Start Smart Every inspiring journey starts with a spark. What would your life look like if you were teaching meaningful skills to children, connecting with families, and creating impact? Now, let’s map it out. Becoming certified to teach children’s etiquette ensures you have the tools, credibility, and confidence to succeed. Certification is your golden ticket to turning a dream into a polished reality.
Step 2: Your Certification = Your Confidence Parents today are looking for experts who can teach their children how to navigate life with kindness and grace. Being certified positions you as the go-to professional in your community. You’ll have the credibility to stand out and the resources to run your business with style. Think chic lesson plans, polished presentations, and engaging activities that leave a lasting impression.
Step 3: Plan Your Launch A successful business doesn’t happen by chance—it happens by design. Dedicate January to your research phase. Who are the families in your area? What schools or organizations could you partner with? February is for setting goals and building your business structure. March? That’s when you go live. Imagine hosting your first etiquette workshop with a room full of eager students and delighted parents.
Step 4: Make It Personal The secret to success? Authenticity. Bring your personality into your business. Your passion and enthusiasm will inspire trust and admiration. Lean into what makes you unique and use it to connect with your audience. Every lesson you teach becomes an extension of your story.
Step 5: Market with Flair You’ve got the skills, the etiquette certification, and the drive. Now it’s time to shine. Social media platforms like Instagram and Pinterest are perfect for showcasing your business. Post behind-the-scenes peeks, highlight your workshops, and share quick etiquette tips parents can implement immediately. Pro tip: Use bright, bold visuals and fun captions to create a brand that’s as irresistible as a perfectly tied bow.
Ready to Begin? Let’s Make 2025 Your Year!
There’s no better time to start than now. By choosing to become certified, you’re not just investing in a business; you’re investing in your community, in the next generation, and in yourself.
Click below to learn more about how to get certified and start your journey today.
Here is a FREE Guide to Help YOU Start a Business Teaching Manners to Children
If you are looking to start immediately and save money on travel and time, then this is your best option.You choose the dates of our trainings. Most choose to have their sessions once a week, others twice. This is a “live” and private training. It is NOTself-guided.
PRIVATE Training. That’s right, we meet in person, the two of us and our focus is completely on your business. Click the image above or follow the button below to learn more and to see a list of cities available for your training.
Teaching children how to console someone who is grieving is a meaningful opportunity to develop their empathy and emotional intelligence. In light of the recent LA fires, many children may encounter friends or adults who have experienced a profound loss, such as losing a home. This is an important moment to guide children on what to say and how to support others during difficult times.
Here is practical guidance on teaching children aged 6-12 how to navigate these sensitive moments with kindness, sincerity, and confidence.
Why This Lesson Matters
Children may feel unsure or awkward when trying to comfort someone who is grieving. Providing them with the right tools builds:
Empathy: Understanding and sharing another person’s feelings.
Emotional Intelligence: Recognizing and responding appropriately to the emotions of others.
Confidence: Empowering children to handle emotional situations with grace.
This lesson also teaches lifelong manners and fosters a culture of care and connection, especially in times of crisis.
What to Teach Children to Say
Here are some simple, meaningful phrases that children can use. They are age-appropriate and help convey empathy and support:
To an Adult Who Is Grieving:
“I’m really sorry for your loss.”
“I’m thinking about you and hope you feel better soon.”
“Is there anything I can do to help?”
To a Friend Who Has Lost Their Home:
“I’m so sorry about your home. That must be really hard.”
“If you want to talk, I’m here to listen.”
“Would you like to play or hang out? Sometimes it helps to do something fun.”
To a Friend Who Has Lost a Loved One:
“I’m really sorry about what happened. I’m thinking of you.”
“It’s okay to feel sad. I’m here if you want to talk.”
“I care about you. You’re not alone.”
The Role of Body Language and Tone
Children’s words are powerful, but their actions and tone enhance sincerity. Teach them to:
Make Eye Contact: Show they are paying attention and genuinely care.
Use a Gentle Tone of Voice: Speak softly to convey compassion.
Show Warmth Through Body Language: A simple touch on the shoulder, a hug (if appropriate), or standing beside someone can provide comfort.
Why This Lesson Builds Empathy
Grief is a universal experience, and by teaching children to recognize and respond to it, you help them develop essential life skills and manners. When children learn to offer support:
They become more attuned to others’ feelings.
They gain confidence in handling emotional situations.
They foster stronger, more meaningful relationships.
Final Thoughts
Guiding children to console someone who is grieving is one of the most meaningful lessons in etiquette and emotional intelligence. Simple, heartfelt words paired with kind actions can make a lasting impact. By teaching children these skills, you equip them to navigate life’s challenges with grace, compassion, and confidence.
Let’s work together to raise a generation that leads with empathy.
If you are looking to start immediately and save money on travel and time, then this is your best option.You choose the dates of our trainings. Most choose to have their sessions once a week, others twice. This is a “live” and private training. It is NOTself-guided.
PRIVATE Training. That’s right, we meet in person, the two of us and our focus is completely on your business. Click the image above or follow the button below to learn more and to see a list of cities available for your training.
Lisa Richey provides etiquette programs to businesses, schools, and individuals.
