Do you have a signature scent that you like to wear? Chanel No.5 and Dior are both iconic. Jo Malone created the popular grapefruit scent years ago and it has become very popular.
Scents can bring up memories – maybe from your mother or father. They can come over us and bring us back to a certain time in our life.
Wearing perfume is a personal choice, and while there are no strict rules, there are certain things to consider.
Now more than ever, it seems many of us have allergies and/or sensitivities to certain aromas. Recently, I was on a flight and the person next to me had on too much perfume. It was so overwhelming it gave me a headache.
We do need to be mindful of where we are going when spritzing on our scents. A little does go a long way.
General Etiquette Guidelines to Consider When Wearing Perfume
Less is More:
Apply perfume sparingly. A little goes a long way, and strong fragrances can be overwhelming. The goal is for others to notice your scent subtly, not to be overpowered by it.
Choose the Right Time and Place:
Consider the setting and occasion. Some scents are more appropriate for evening events, while others may be better suited for daytime or professional environments.
Be Mindful of Others:
Keep in mind that some people may be sensitive or allergic to certain scents. Be considerate of others in close quarters, such as in an office, on public transportation, or in confined spaces.
Apply to Pulse Points:
Apply perfume to pulse points, such as the wrists, neck, and behind the ears. These areas emit heat, which can enhance the fragrance.
Don’t Rub:
Avoid rubbing your wrists together after applying perfume. This can alter the scent and affect its longevity.
Layering Scents:
If using scented lotions or other products, choose ones that complement rather than clash with your perfume. Layering similar scents can enhance the overall effect.
Consider the Strength:
Adjust the strength of your fragrance based on the type of perfume (eau de toilette, eau de parfum, etc.) and its concentration. Stronger scents may require even more caution with application.
Seasonal Considerations:
Some scents are more suitable for specific seasons. Lighter, fresher scents are often preferred in hot weather, while warmer, spicier scents may be better in colder months.
Storage Matters:
Store your perfume in a cool, dark place. Exposure to heat and light can alter the fragrance over time.
Test Before Committing:
Before purchasing a new perfume, try a sample to ensure you like how it interacts with your body chemistry. Perfume can smell different on different people.
Perfumes Often Considered Iconic and Popular Include:
Chanel No. 5: Created by Coco Chanel, Chanel No. 5 is one of the most famous and timeless fragrances in the world.
Dior J’adore: This fragrance by Christian Dior is known for its elegant and floral composition.
CK One by Calvin Klein: A unisex fragrance that gained popularity for its fresh and clean scent.
Flowerbomb by Viktor & Rolf: This fragrance is characterized by its floral and sweet notes.
Black Opium by Yves Saint Laurent: Known for its warm and spicy fragrance, Black Opium has become popular among a wide range of age groups.
La Vie Est Belle by Lancôme: Recognized for its sweet and feminine scent, this fragrance has gained popularity since its release.
Remember that personal preferences and cultural norms may vary, so these guidelines are not strict rules.
The key is to be aware of the impact of your fragrance on yourself and those around you and to use it with consideration.
As an etiquette expert, these are the types of questions you will be asked. People need guidance on what is acceptable in everyday life. It is always a good idea to be socially aware.
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Jackie Kennedy Public Private and Secret -is a book that captured my attention. It is a quick and fascinating read about a woman who is elegant, confident and certainly had and still has a presence.
Did you know Jackie, at the age of 21, was chosen out of 1,279 candidates to become a junior editor at Vogue magazine in 1951? She was to spend six months working in New York and another six months at their office in Paris. Jackie’s mother had a great deal of influence with Jackie. She persuaded her daughter to quit after her first day as this assignment would have her in an office of mostly women. Jackie would not be around prominent young gentlemen. Her mother wanted her to find the most eligible suitor. Also, her mother was afraid that if Jackie were to go and live in Paris, she would never come home!
Jackie soon landed a job as a columnist at The Washington Times Herald. And her life did change. She met John F. Kennedy.
Jackie was beautiful, determined and very smart. She set boundaries and knew what she wanted.
She is credited for a major redesign of The White House. Due to her love of architecture and history, she preserved Grand Central Station.
As an etiquette expert, you will find yourself thinking of Jackie Kennedy often. She is the epitome of a confident, elegant and magnetic woman. Her style will always be with us.
I highly recommend this book. I found myself many times sitting by the fire with a cup of tea devouring it.
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Creating a beautiful life involves a combination of many things, good habits, being intentional about it as well as an awareness.
Creating beauty in our lives is easy – especially when we start to notice what is important to us.
It is often the simple things that we create that are the most meaningful.
The key word here is “create”. This is not a “should” or a “must”.
Creating can bring such daily pleasure.
Today I have created actions you can take to have more beauty in your life. Many of you may already do this. And when you come from a place of awareness and intention, I promise, it makes a difference.
As an etiquette expert, you can model living a beautiful life when teaching/speaking. This can be done with the way you carry yourself, the way you dress, and your presentation style.
Action Steps to Create a Beautiful Life in January as an Etiquette Expert
Become Curious:
We become more interesting and charismatic when we are curious. Do more than show interest. Really become interested in others and new ideas. Research. Ask deeper questions. Go the extra step and ask a “why” question.
Plan Lunch or Afternoon Tea with Girlfriends:
Take the initiative and schedule a lunch or afternoon tea with your friends. Surround yourself with positive and supportive people. Foster meaningful connections with friends, family, and your community.
Embrace Learning:
Cultivate a growth mindset by seeking opportunities for learning and personal development. Whether it’s acquiring new skills, pursuing education, or exploring new hobbies, continuous learning contributes to a fulfilling life.
Healthy Menu for the Month:
Choosing and planning healthy meals makes a big difference in how we feel in January.
Live in the Present:
Practice mindfulness and stay present in the moment. Avoid dwelling on the past or worrying excessively about the future. Engage fully in your daily experiences.
Simplify:
Declutter your physical space and simplify your life. Focus on what truly matters and eliminate unnecessary stressors. Minimalism can contribute to a sense of clarity and peace.
Contribute to your community or causes that matter to you. Acts of kindness and service not only benefit others but also enhance your own sense of purpose and fulfillment.
Cultivate Joy:
Identify activities that bring you joy and make time for them regularly. Whether it’s a hobby, spending time in nature, or engaging in creative pursuits, prioritize activities that bring happiness.
Adaptability:
Embrace change and cultivate adaptability. Life is dynamic, and being open to new experiences and challenges can lead to personal growth and resilience.
Self-Reflection:
Regularly reflect on your values, priorities, and goals. Adjust your path as needed to ensure that your actions align with your authentic self.
Creating Beauty is Unique to Each of Us
Remember, a beautiful life is unique to each individual. It’s about finding what brings you fulfillment, joy, and a sense of purpose. Continuously reassess and adjust as needed, and don’t forget to appreciate the journey along the way.
Thanks for reading and let us know how you create beauty in life.
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Did you know there are seven shapes of champagne glasses? And the Coupe is my favorite. I love the style and shape of it. It also reminds me of the show, Mad Men!
Coupe glasses (pronounced “coop”) have wide, shallow bowls sitting on top of a stem.
The coupe champagne glass may also be used for condiments, sorbet, frozen drinks, ice cream sundaes and of course gazpacho (see the photo).
The Fascinating History of the Coupe Champagne Glass
The coupe champagne glass has a fascinating history that dates back several centuries. Here’s an overview of its origin and evolution:
Birth in the 17th Century: The coupe glass is believed to have originated in England in the 1600s. It was designed during a time when glassblowers had limited techniques and tools. The first coupe glasses were made by repurposing the rounded bowls of wine glasses. These early versions had a shallow, broad bowl with a short stem.
Attribution to Marie Antoinette: One popular legend suggests that the coupe glass was modeled after the shape of Marie Antoinette’s breast, and it became known as the “Marie Antoinette Coupe.” However, historical evidence supporting this claim is scarce, and it is more likely a romanticized tale.
Popularity in the 18th and 19th Centuries: The coupe glass gained popularity in Europe, particularly in France, during the 18th and 19th centuries. It was the glass of choice for enjoying sparkling wine and Champagne. However, as sparkling wines evolved, some critics pointed out that the coupe shape allowed the bubbles to dissipate quickly, leading to a loss of effervescence.
Rise of the Flute Glass: By the late 19th century, a shift in taste occurred, and the flute glass started to gain favor over the coupe for serving Champagne. The flute’s elongated shape was believed to preserve the bubbles better, enhancing the drinking experience. The flute became the dominant glassware for Champagne and other sparkling wines.
Resurgence in Popularity: Despite the decline in popularity, the coupe glass experienced a resurgence in the mid-20th century, particularly in the United States during the Prohibition era. It became a symbol of luxury and elegance, featured in movies and Hollywood glamour scenes.
Modern Use: In recent times, the coupe glass has made a comeback in the cocktail culture and mixology scene. It is often used to serve classic cocktails, such as martinis, daiquiris, and sidecars, as well as Champagne cocktails. Its wide bowl and shallow design lend themselves well to creative presentations and garnishes.
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This may not surprise you, for me it was our family meals.
I have the fondest memories, of my mother’s fried chicken and sitting around with platters on the table of homemade goodies. My mother was known for her southern cooking and not using a recipe- throwing it all together and hoping for the best.
A Loving Table: Book Review
When I first looked through the book, A Loving Table, these childhood memories ran through my mind.
I first saw the book at event hosted by Design Matters NC. I attended the two day event and it was a sight for my eyes.
The event was attended by many southern interior designers. Over 26 designers came together to inspire us with the most beautiful table settings.
This past weekend, I had the chance to finally sit down and read the book. Of course this was with a cup of tea and a side of chocolate.
I was inspired by the beautiful photography and also the stories told by those featured in the book.
Thirty style-setting women paid tribute to their mothers and grandmothers. They shared their stories of meaningful birthday parties and holidays around the dining room and kitchen table.
Don’t miss out on this beautiful journey into the refined and elegant world of entertaining.
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What can we do in our daily lives to return to the art of being refined?
I recognize the world has changed. We are more casual than we have ever been.
Adding a few small details can make us and others feel a bit more special.
Today, I am sharing my ideas on ways in which we can add actions to become more refined in our daily life.
Returning to refinement involves taking a closer look at a project, idea, or process and making improvements or adjustments to enhance its quality, effectiveness, or aesthetics.
If you are interested in the world of etiquette, then this article is for you.
How to Add Refinement to Daily Life
Personal Development: Continue to learn and adapt. Invest in ongoing learning and personal development. Read books, attend seminars/webinars, and take courses related to leadership, communication, and self-awareness. The more you learn, the more self-aware you can become. You also become more interesting and engaged with life. As an etiquette expert, it is important you continue to learn and grow in your field.
Friendships: Continue to foster your friendships and be open to new ones. Invite friends over for lunch, dinner, game night or coffee. Friendships add so much to our lives.
Communication Skills: After a conversation with a spouse, client or friend, take time to reflect on the communication process. Consider how you can improve your communication style, whether it’s being more concise, using more appropriate language, or enhancing your non-verbal cues.
Dress the Part: This is a big one. We certainly live in a more casual society but that doesn’t mean that we have to be like everyone else. If it is your true nature to dress up a bit – be more refined, then do so. Be true to yourself. Add the navy or blue blazer and wear with your favorite jeans..
5. Time Management: Evaluate your daily routines and schedules. Is it time to refine how you spend your time. Are you prioritizing the right tasks?
6. Set the Table: Practice using your table manners at home. Add cloth napkins. Sit down to family meals more often. Even if you are having your coffee or tea alone in the mornings, put it in a beautiful cup.
7. Your Surroundings: Add fresh flowers to your desk or in the kitchen. Tidy your desk before you leave in the evening.
8. Your Bedroom: Make up your bed everyday. This takes so little time and makes a big difference.
9. Thank You Notes: The first step is to write them and if you want to be more refined, then write them on a note card. If you want to take it the next step, personalize your stationery. This not only enhances the experience for the receiver but you as well.
Returning to refinement is an ongoing process that helps you enhance your personal and professional life.
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Lisa Richey provides etiquette programs to businesses, schools, and individuals.
