Marjorie Post on Etiquette and Social Graces

Marjorie Post and The Book You Must Read if You Are a Soon to Be Etiquette Expert

For etiquette experts, Marjorie Post’s life is a masterclass in the art of social graces and influence. 

This has been one of my favorites books so far in 2024.  I did not want it to end.

I have had the pleasure of touring two of her homes.  Hillwood located in Washington DC and Mar -a – Lago in Palm Beach, Florida.

The story of her life is a fascinating journey, especially for those of us with a passion to teach etiquette and social graces.

Insights into Etiquette and Social Graces

Marjorie Post was an expert in entertaining. Her ability to navigate different social circles, host exquisite gatherings, and maintain her dignity in the face of personal and public challenges is meticulously depicted. Here are some key takeaways:

1. Impeccable Hosting Skills: The book provides detailed accounts of Marjorie’s legendary parties and social gatherings. Her attention to detail, from the selection of fine china to the orchestration of guest lists, highlights the importance of hospitality in maintaining social networks and influence.
2. Adaptability and Resilience: Marjorie’s life was marked by significant personal and professional changes. Her ability to adapt gracefully to new circumstances, whether it was managing her vast estate or dealing with the end of a marriage, showcases the importance of resilience and adaptability in social etiquette.
3. Philanthropy and Social Responsibility: Marjorie’s philanthropic efforts, particularly during the Great Depression and World War II, reflect the role of social responsibility in the realm of etiquette. Her charitable work underscores the importance of giving back to society and using one’s influence for the greater good.
4. Fashion and Presentation: Marjorie’s keen sense of fashion and presentation is a recurring theme in the book. Her careful attention to her appearance, as well as the decorum expected in various social settings, provides valuable lessons in the importance of personal presentation in social etiquette.

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