The Importance of Saying Please, Hello and Thank You for Children


Etiquette School with Eloise

Have you ever read any of the “Eloise” books to your children? I smile when Eloise says, “Thank you very much and charge it please.” This is a very easy scene to visualize. Maybe this is a great way to start your little ones off with the basics of etiquette at a young age.

If only everyone honored the basic elements of good manners. Can you imagine if everyone in an office said, “Good morning” to those they passed in the hallway, instead of just focusing on the task at hand? Our world would be a much better place.

As your daughter gets picked up by the carpool mom in the morning, does she say “Hello?” This might be a good time to point this tip out to her. How about to her teachers when she arrives at school or to the principal as she passes her in the hall? Teach your children to greet people by name and to make eye contact with them instead of looking down or away. Eye contact is easy to teach and you will see immediate results.

Etiquette Class Manners Classes in Philadelphia


Smiles are contagious. Have you noticed? Have you ever walked down the street and unknowingly you are smiling because you are thinking about something funny? As you look up you notice the person coming toward you is smiling. Just put a smile on your face right now and see how it changes your disposition. Communicate this to your children often and practice, practice, practice.

“Pass the potatoes, please.” Please is a magical word and can be used every day. This is another basic to include as soon as your child can speak. The word “please” works both ways.

Thank you is just necessary in life. This is a universal truth. Challenge your children to see how often they can say it every day.

Etiquette School at The Plaza in NY with Eloise


For more information about teaching manners to children, click here.

For more information on how to become a certified etiquette consultant, click here.

For more information on how to teach manners in the classroom, click here.


Care.Com: Seven Ways to Boost a Child’s Confidence

One of the greatest joys when teaching children manners,  is to watch their level of confidence sky rocket…almost instantaneously. It is the awareness, the attention to how it feels to be confident on the inside that makes the biggest impact.  An obvious light bulb goes on!

Recently, I partnered with Care.com and contributed to an article on How to Boost Kids’ Confidence.  To read the article, click here.

7 Ways to Boost Kids’ Confidence

One trick to prevent bullying? Raising confident kids. Here are ways you can build self esteem at any age.

    1.  Model Acceptance: Opinions are fine, but don’t demean others in front of your children.
    2. Teach Good Manners: Having manners helps you to feel good about yourself
    3. Give Genuine Compliments: Give compliments that are true, appropriate for the child and meaningful
    4. Set Kids up to Succeed: Play to your child’s natural abilities
    5. Help Them to Trust Themselves: Let them choose but offer guidance
    6. Assign Household Chores: Assign chores to allow them to feel useful and accept responsibilities
    7. Open Your Home to Friends: Help foster friendships and stay involved
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